Tuesday, October 8, 2013

The Favoritism that Fuels Jealousy...


This fall, we have been traveling on a journey with a man named Jacob and his family that is recorded for us in the first letter in the bible called the book of Genesis. This week, I would like for us to pick up where we left off last week. However, before we jump back into this section of the book of Genesis, we need to take a minute to understand the context that we are jumping back into.

After leaving Shechem to worship the Lord at Bethel, Jacob and his family headed toward Hebron. However, as the family approached what is now the town of Bethlehem, Rachel passed away while giving birth to a son, who was named Benjamin. After arriving in Hebron, Jacob and his family began the process of settling down in the land that God had promised them. However, as they began to settle down, we see a problem arise, which Moses records for us in Genesis 37:1:

Now Jacob lived in the land where his father had sojourned, in the land of Canaan. These are the records of the generations of Jacob. Joseph, when seventeen years of age, was pasturing the flock with his brothers while he was still a youth, along with the sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father's wives. And Joseph brought back a bad report about them to their father. Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his sons, because he was the son of his old age; and he made him a varicolored tunic. His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers; and so they hated him and could not speak to him on friendly terms.

Moses brings us into this story by exposing a problem between Jacob’s sons. Moses explains that Joseph, who was the second youngest of Jacob’s twelve sons, was helping Dan, Naphtali, Gad, and Asher take care of the family flocks. Now Dan, Naphtali, Gad, and Asher technically were Joseph’s stepbrothers from Jacob’s marriage to the servants of Rachel and Leah.

As Joseph worked alongside his stepbrothers, his stepbrothers did something that they should not have done. While Moses does not tell us exactly what they did wrong, what Moses does tell us is that Joseph brought back a bad report about them to their father. In other words, Joseph tattled on his older brothers and told dad what they had done.

Now, if that was not bad enough, Moses tells us that Jacob loved Joseph more than all his other sons. And because Joseph was daddy’s favorite, Joseph received a special present from his father in the form of a varicolored tunic. This tunic was actually a multicolored, full length robe that would have been very expensive and would have caught everyone’s attention.

Now, as you might imagine, this special gift from his father would have had a special place in Joseph’s heart. This coat would have been Joseph’s favorite coat. He would have worn this coat everywhere. And, as you might imagine, this coat would be a reminder to his brothers that Joseph was daddy’s favorite. 

Moses tells us that as Joseph’s brothers saw him wearing the evidence of his father’s favoritism, and as Joseph’s brothers remembered how Joseph had gotten them in trouble, they hated him and could not speak to him on friendly terms. What is so interesting is that the word on friendly terms here is the word shalom, which literally means peace. You see, there was no peace in the household. Instead, as a result of Jacob’s favoritism, there was jealousy, hatred, and division. Now, Joseph, for his part, did not help matters, as Moses reveals for us in verse 5:

Then Joseph had a dream, and when he told it to his brothers, they hated him even more. He said to them, "Please listen to this dream which I have had; for behold, we were binding sheaves in the field, and lo, my sheaf rose up and also stood erect; and behold, your sheaves gathered around and bowed down to my sheaf." Then his brothers said to him, "Are you actually going to reign over us? Or are you really going to rule over us?" So they hated him even more for his dreams and for his words.

Now while Joseph told his dream to his brothers, he did not tell them what he thought the dream actually meant. Joseph did not need to tell them what the dream meant because his brothers clearly recognized what the dream meant.

Their response to Joseph’s dream, if communicated in the language that we use today, would have sounded something like this: So do you, our little brother, actually think that you are going to be large and charge over us? Do you actually think that we will bow to you and serve you?

At this point, Moses tells us that Joseph’s brothers not only hated Joseph because he was a tattle tale; not only did Joseph’s brothers hate Joseph because he was daddy’s favorite; Joseph’s brothers also hated Joseph because of the dream and because he had the nerve to actually share the dream with them.

I mean, if you are Joseph, why would you share that dream with your brothers? You could not possibly think that sharing the dream was going to improve your relationship you’re your brothers, could you? Can you imagine the look on Joseph’s brother’s face as they listened to him share his dream with them?

Now at this point, you would think that Joseph would learn. At this point, you think Joseph would sense the animosity building and change how he related to them. And at this point, you would be wrong, as we see in verse 9:

  Now he had still another dream, and related it to his brothers, and said, "Lo, I have had still another dream; and behold, the sun and the moon and eleven stars were bowing down to me." He related it to his father and to his brothers; and his father rebuked him and said to him, "What is this dream that you have had? Shall I and your mother and your brothers actually come to bow ourselves down before you to the ground?" His brothers were jealous of him, but his father kept the saying in mind.

Moses tells us that a short time later, Joseph had a second dream. Just like the first dream, this dream was easy to interpret and understand. And just like the first dream, Joseph freely shares his dream, this time with the entire family. This time, however, it was Jacob who responded to Joseph. Jacob reprimanded Jacob by questioning whether Joseph actually believed that the entire family would bow to and serve him. Joseph’s brothers, however, sat back and watched their father scold their brother.

Now, while the brothers were silent, that does not mean that the brothers were not emotionally engaged. Moses tells us that Joseph’s brothers were jealous of him. Joseph’s brothers wanted want Joseph had and did not want Joseph to have what he did have.  Joseph’s brothers wanted to be daddy’s favorite. Joseph’s brother’s viewed him as a spoiled rotten brat who was a tattle tale and a braggart.

And while Jacob filed away Joseph’s dream in the back of his mind, Joseph’s brothers fumed in anger. They fumed in anger over their father’s favoritism: they fumed in anger over their bratty brother who they were jealous of. Joseph’s brothers anger fumed until an event occurred that would radically change the trajectory of the entire family.
Tomorrow, we will look at that event…

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