Tuesday, October 15, 2013

A Disconnect When It Comes To Our Connections...


During this fall at the church where I serve, we are spending our time together in a sermon series looking at a section of the very first letter that is recorded for us in the Bible called the book of Genesis. This week, as we continue in this series, I would like for us to spend our time together by picking up where we left off last week. And as we jump back into this section of the very first letter that is recorded for us in the Bible, called the book of Genesis, we will see the focus of this story shift from Joseph to another one of the twelve sons of Jacob. Moses makes this shift of us beginning in Genesis 38:1. Let’s look at it together:

And it came about at that time, that Judah departed from his brothers and visited a certain Adullamite, whose name was Hirah. Judah saw there a daughter of a certain Canaanite whose name was Shua; and he took her and went in to her. So she conceived and bore a son and he named him Er. Then she conceived again and bore a son and named him Onan. She bore still another son and named him Shelah; and it was at Chezib that she bore him.

Moses brings us into this section of the book of Genesis by explaining that after leading a plan to sell his brother Joseph as a slave, Judah separated from his brothers. Instead of heading back to Hebron with the rest of his brothers, Judah went to the city of Adullam, which was located 15 miles northwest of Hebron. There Judah connected and developed a friendship with a man named Hirah, who was from the land of Canaan.

To understand the significance of this friendship, we first need to understand something about the Canaanites, who were the people that resided in the land that God had promised Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. The first thing that we need to understand is that the people who inhabited the land of Canaan were some of the most inhumane and cruel societies that ever lived. These were societies that sacrificed their infant children to false gods; these were societies that were involved in sexual behavior that was so twisted and perverse I cannot even begin to describe in mixed company. In fact, many historians and archeologists describe the Canaanite society as being perhaps the most wicked society that ever existed.

Yet, in spite of this reality, Judah chose to disconnect from his family and connect with this culture. Judah then further connected with this culture by pursuing and marrying a Canaanite woman named Shua. Despite the fact that Judah’s grandfather and father had been warned against marrying anyone from the land of Canaan; despite the fact that his father Jacob had made sure not to marry a person from the land of Canaan, Judah chose to develop an intimate relationship and marry someone who came from a different religious system and view of God and the world.  And as a result of this relationship, Judah became the father of three sons, who were named Er, Onan, and Shelah. Moses then reveals what happened as Judah’s children grew up in verse 6:

 Now Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. But Er, Judah's firstborn, was evil in the sight of the LORD, so the LORD took his life. Then Judah said to Onan, "Go in to your brother's wife, and perform your duty as a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for your brother."

When his oldest son Er reached the age of marriage, Moses tells us that Judah found a Canaanite woman named Tamar to be his wife. Instead of following the example of his great grandfather Abraham and his grandfather Isaac, who guided their children to women who shared the same view of God and the world, Judah guided Er to a woman who held a diametrically opposed view when it came to God and the world.

You see, Judah’s close relationship with Hirah began to change how he viewed the world. As time went on, the influence of that relationship led Judah to marry someone who also embraced the culture of the land of Canaan, which further influenced his view of God and the world. And the influence of his relationship with his wife led Judah to guide Er to marry Tamar who also embraced the culture of the land of Canaan. With each relationship Judah moved further away from doing what was right in God’s sight.

Moses then reveals the impact that the influence of these relationships had on the lives of Judah’s children. While Judah’s relationships moved him further away from God, his son Er was wholeheartedly opposed to God. Moses describes Er as being evil in the sight of the Lord. Now while we are not told exactly what Er had done, this word evil literally means to be morally corrupt. Er was so morally corrupt that the Lord took his life. In other words, the Lord took him out; the Lord killed him.

After the Lord responded to Er’s selfishness and rebellion by killing him on the spot, Moses tells us that Judah commanded his younger brother to “Go in to your brother's wife, and perform your duty as a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for your brother." To which we say “what”? A natural question that arises here is “so Dave, are you saying the Judah commanded Er’s younger brother to sleep with Er’s wife so that she could have kids? Isn’t that adultery? Isn’t that incest? Why would Judah ask Onan to do that, because that seems jacked up? ”

If those questions are running through your mind, I want to let you know that those are great questions to be asking. And to understand the answer to these questions, we first need to understand two things. The first thing that we need to understand is what is called levirate marriage. Levirate marriage maintained that if brothers lived together, and if one of them died without children, one of the surviving brothers was to either marry or take his wife and father a child with her. The child born of this levirate relationship would then carry on the name of his deceased father and eventually inherits the family estate. Now, the brother in law can decline this obligation, but to do so would result in public humiliation and disgrace. We see this occur later in the Bible in the story of Ruth.

Now this leads to the second thing that we need to understand, which is that what Moses is describing here refers to a specific time in history with a specific group of people. This is not a timeless principle; this principle does not apply today. During this period, as God was creating and establishing what would become the Jewish nation, Jacob, his twelve sons, and their descendants were responsible for populating and controlling the land. So the levirate marriage was established to make sure that land and property, along with the name and family tree of a dead brother, would not disappear.

Now with all that in mind, notice that Judah does not command Onan to marry Tamar. Instead, he only commands Onan to have sex with Tamar so that she could have a child to carry on the name of Er. You see, Judah is not concerned about taking care of his daughter in law Tamar; he is only concerned about his dead son.

Now if that is not strange enough, tomorrow we will see this situation get even stranger…

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