Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Favoritism That Drives Others Away...


This week, we are looking at a story that is recorded for us in the very first letter in the Bible, called the book of Genesis. Yesterday, we saw Moses expose a problem within Jacob’s family in that Joseph’s brothers were jealous of him. Joseph’s brothers wanted want Joseph had and did not want Joseph to have what he did have.  Joseph’s brothers wanted to be daddy’s favorite. Joseph’s brother’s viewed him as a spoiled rotten brat who was a tattle tale and a braggart.

And while Jacob filed away Joseph’s dream in the back of his mind, Joseph’s brothers fumed in anger. They fumed in anger over their father’s favoritism: they fumed in anger over their bratty brother who they were jealous of. Joseph’s brothers anger fumed until an event occurred that would radically change the trajectory of the entire family. Today, we will look at that event in history that Moses records for us in Genesis 37:12:

 Then his brothers went to pasture their father's flock in Shechem. Israel said to Joseph, "Are not your brothers pasturing the flock in Shechem? Come, and I will send you to them." And he said to him, "I will go." Then he said to him, "Go now and see about the welfare of your brothers and the welfare of the flock, and bring word back to me." So he sent him from the valley of Hebron, and he came to Shechem. A man found him, and behold, he was wandering in the field; and the man asked him, "What are you looking for?" He said, "I am looking for my brothers; please tell me where they are pasturing the flock." Then the man said, "They have moved from here; for I heard them say, 'Let us go to Dothan.'" So Joseph went after his brothers and found them at Dothan.

After hearing Joseph share his dreams with them, Moses tells us that Joseph’s brothers went to pasture the family flock in Shechem. Now to fully grasp the significance of this, we first need to understand where Shechem was located. Shechem was approximately 50 miles north of Hebron, which is where Jacob and his family were living. And as we discovered last week, Shechem was the place where Jacobs’ sons Simeon and Levi responded to the wrong that was done to their sister Dinah by slaughtering every male in the city, while the rest of Jacob’s sons followed behind and looted the city.

Jacob, out of concern for the safety of his sons and whether or not his sons were doing what they were supposed to be doing, sends his favorite son Joseph to check up on his brothers. Jacob basically tells Joseph to “go see how your brothers and the flock are doing”.

Joseph then makes the 50 mile trip to Shechem, but is unable to find his brothers. As Joseph wanders around looking for his brothers, he is informed by a man that his brothers had headed to Dothan, which was around 14 miles further north of Shechem. Joseph responded to this news by heading to Dothan in order to check up on his brothers.

Now a natural question that arises here is “well Dave, why would the brothers travel so far with the family flock? What would possess them to go over 60 miles away from home?” If those questions are running through your mind, I want to let you know those are great questions to be asking. From this story, there is no mention of a drought or famine, so the issue was not one of a lack of resources. So why go so far from home?

I believe the reason why Joseph’s brothers traveled so far from home is because Joseph’s brothers wanted to get as far away as possible from their father and brother. Imagine yourself as one of Joseph’s brothers. Place yourself in their shoes. Would you want to be around your father who played favorites? Would you want to be around your tattle tale younger brother who was daddy’s favorite? Would you even want to look at your little brother as he wore his fancy coat and talked about his dreams of ruling over you?

Of course you wouldn’t. You would want to get as far away as possible. You see, the brother’s jealousy over their father’s favoritism was driving them away. And their hatred and jealousy of Joseph would drive them to something else, as we see in verse 18: 

 When they saw him from a distance and before he came close to them, they plotted against him to put him to death. They said to one another, "Here comes this dreamer! "Now then, come and let us kill him and throw him into one of the pits; and we will say, 'A wild beast devoured him.' Then let us see what will become of his dreams!"

As they saw Joseph and his multicolored robe in the distance, the brothers fuming anger over their father’s favoritism toward their bratty little brother overflowed into a conversation that gave birth to a plan. This conversation, if communicated in the language we us in our culture today would have sounded like this: “Oh look, here comes this master of dreams. Yah, I can’t stand him. You know what we should just kill him and cast him into this empty well. We’ll just tell dad that he was killed and eaten by a wild beast. Yah, that’s a good idea. Let’s show him how wrong his dreams are. Let’s kill him, and then let’s see how his dreams will come true.” While the brothers plotted how to put an end to Joseph’s life, there was one who had a different plan, which Moses reveals for us in verse 21:

But Reuben heard this and rescued him out of their hands and said, "Let us not take his life." Reuben further said to them, "Shed no blood. Throw him into this pit that is in the wilderness, but do not lay hands on him"-- that he might rescue him out of their hands, to restore him to his father. So it came about, when Joseph reached his brothers, that they stripped Joseph of his tunic, the varicolored tunic that was on him; and they took him and threw him into the pit. Now the pit was empty, without any water in it.

Now a natural question that arises here is “why would Rueben feel a need to attempt to rescue Joseph from the rest of his brothers?” As the oldest Rueben felt a special responsibility to take care of his brothers. In addition, by rescuing Joseph, Rueben would have the opportunity to get back in the good graces of his father.  You see, Rueben was in the doghouse with his father after he had slept with one of his wives. Now who says the Bible is boring.

So Rueben basically says to his brothers “don’t kill him yourself by your hand, instead just throw him in this empty well and let him die that way”.  Moses tells us that the brothers agreed with Rueben’s plan and stripped Joseph of the robe that signified his favorite status with his father and cast him into the empty well. Rueben then left his brothers to take care of some business, confident that his plan had saved Joseph and would get brownie points with his dad.

However, like so many plans, this plan was by no means foolproof, which we will see on Friday…

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