Wednesday, April 1, 2020

Responding to a rejected invitation...


This week we are looking at an event from history where Jesus tells a parable about a wedding invitation that reveals for us a timeless truth about the kingdom of heaven. In the midst of a confrontation with self-righteous religious people, Jesus told a parable that compared the kingdom of heaven to a king who gave a wedding feast for his son. 

Jesus explained that the king sent out slaves to call all of those who were invited to the wedding feast. Now in the Jewish culture of Jesus day, during a wedding, the bridegroom would come to pick up the bride at her parents’ house, where the wedding feast would begin with a meal.

So what would happen in Jesus day was that a wedding invitation would be sent to inform those invited of the impending wedding. Then as the bridegroom began his journey to pick up his bride, the family would send slaves to inform those who have already been invited and who had already accepted the invitation that the time for the wedding feast had come. 

In this particular case, however, Jesus continued by stating that those who were invited had changed their mind and were unwilling to come. Jesus then continued the parable by revealing how the king responded to their change of mind in Matthew 22:4-6:

"Again he sent out other slaves saying, 'Tell those who have been invited, "Behold, I have prepared my dinner; my oxen and my fattened livestock are all butchered and everything is ready; come to the wedding feast."' 5 "But they paid no attention and went their way, one to his own farm, another to his business, 6 and the rest seized his slaves and mistreated them and killed them.

Jesus explained that the king responded to their change of mind by sending out other slaves to remind those who he had invited about the wedding feast. You see, the reception hall had been reserved, the caterer had been hired, all of the food had been prepared and the bar had been stocked. The king has already made all the preparations necessary for the feast based on the RSVP’s that he had received.

And even at this point, although the king had already sent out slaves throughout the time leading up to the wedding; he was still willing to send out another reminder to those who have been invited that the feast was about to start. You see, this second appeal revealed how much that they king had already done for the guests.  Yet, in spite of this second appeal, Jesus explained that the king’s guests were still unwilling to come.

Now by ignoring this second reminder, these guests were going back on their word. The guests were disregarding and neglecting the commitment that they had previously made to the king by rejecting the invitation. Instead of following through on their commitment, those were invited proceeded to give a variety of excuses as to why they were not willing to attend.

But did you notice the common theme behind each of their excuses? You see each of their excuses revealed the reality that they were more concerned about their own affairs than responding to the invitation from the king. Each of the excuses demonstrated that the invited guests had put their own selfish concerns before their responsibility to the king. And in doing so, they demonstrated that they cared more about themselves than the king.

Jesus then explained that those who did not reject the invitation due to selfishness responded to the king’s reminder by mistreating and killing the king’s messengers. Not only did they reject the message of the invitation, they rejected the messenger as well. Now this rejection would have been considered nothing less than a slap in the face and a betrayal to the king by those he invited. And as Jesus continued the parable, we see Jesus reveal the king’s response to this rejection and betrayal in Matthew 22:7-10:

"But the king was enraged, and he sent his armies and destroyed those murderers and set their city on fire. 8 "Then he said to his slaves, 'The wedding is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy. 9 'Go therefore to the main highways, and as many as you find there, invite to the wedding feast.' 10 "Those slaves went out into the streets and gathered together all they found, both evil and good; and the wedding hall was filled with dinner guests.

Jesus explained that the king was enraged by the rejection of his invitation. Now this word enraged, literally means to be set on fire. With this word, Jesus was making it unmistakably clear that the actions of those who had rejected the king’s invitation ignited and provoked a response of anger. Now maybe you can relate to the king’s emotions here? Have you ever been enraged because an invitation that you had made to someone was rejected?

Jesus then explained that the king responded to the rejection by doing two things. First, the king ordered his armies to go and punish those who had rejected his invitation. But, did you notice the reason why the king sent out his armies to punish those who had rejected his invitation? In verse 8, the king explained to his slaves that those who were invited were not worthy.

Now a natural question that could arise here is “Well why were they not worthy? And why would the king have invited them in the first place if they were not worthy?” If that question is running through your mind, you are asking a great question. 

You see, those who were invited were not worthy because they refused to put into practice their professed acceptance to his invitation. They originally accepted the king’s invitation to be present at the wedding feast, but when push came to shove, they backed away from their commitment to the king out of their own selfish concerns and commitments. And because of their failure to practice what they had professed, they revealed where their true allegiance was.

Second the king did commanded his servants to go to the main highways and invite everyone that they could find to the feast. The king responded to those who rejected his offer by extending his offer to everyone. The king even invited those who did not seem to have any natural status or advantages. But even though they may not have had status or advantages, they were willing to come if invited and needed no second invitation or reminder.

This would have been considered a gracious offer by the king. Jesus then explained that the slaves responded by going out and gathering together all that they could find, both good and bad, into the wedding hall to the point that it was filled with guests. Now once the wedding hall was filled with guests, then the feast can begin right?

Not exactly, as we see will see on Friday…

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