Friday, March 9, 2018

6 ways to use good judgment when making judgments...


This week we have been looking at a section of a famous sermon that Jesus preached, called the Sermon on the Mount, which is recorded for us in a section of an account of Jesus life in the Bible called the gospel of Matthew. In Matthew 7:1-5, in one of the most misunderstood and misused statements of Jesus in the entire Bible, we see Jesus reveal for us the timeless truth that a right relationship with God requires that we use good judgment when making judgments.  

We talked about the reality that Jesus addressed the issue of us making judgments because Jesus knew that the tendency of humanity is to make judgments and to be judgmental. Jesus addressed the issue of making judgments because Jesus is concerned with our internal heart condition. Jesus is concerned with our internal heart condition because Jesus knows, and human history has shown, that eventually what is in the heart will spill out. And because of the reality, Jesus commanded humanity throughout history to make sure that they used good judgment when making judgments.

And because of the reality that a right relationship with God requires that we use judgment when making judgments, I want to apply this truth in real and tangible ways to our day to day lives. The first application of this truth is that we use good judgment when making judgments when we recognize that we are to make judgments as we want to be judged.

We have to be very careful that we do not engage in a crusade of judgment against the sins, the selfishness and rebellion that you personally struggle with. For example, you are being hypocritical if you engage in a crusade of judgment against the lewd sexuality of Hollywood while you are engaged in online porn. However, it is tempting to engage in the expressing of our opinions to others on an issue that we ourselves may struggle with.

We also have to be very careful that we do not harshly condemn the selfishness, rebellion and sin of others out of a desire to protect those we love. For example, it is tempting to harshly condemn a person who struggles with addiction because we worry about a person you love being tempted by addiction.

The second application of this truth is that we use good judgment when making judgments when we make sure we deal with our own selfishness, rebellion and sin before we start worrying about everybody else’s selfishness, rebellion, and sin. Be very careful to make sure that the opinions that we express and the judgments that we make begin with the person in the mirror before moving to the person out the window. Be very careful to make sure that we point the thumb at ourselves before pointing the finger at others.

The third application of this truth is that we use good judgment when making judgments when we make sure that we do not make judgments if God has not spoken clearly on an issue. Within Christianity there are two types of issues: There are some issues about following Jesus that are closed handed issues that are not open for debate. For example, the fact that Jesus Christ is God-in-a-bod; the truth of the Trinity; the truth that salvation from selfishness and sin comes only by placing one’s confident truth in the claims of Christ and the message of the gospel by believing, trusting, and following Jesus as Lord and Leader; these are closed handed issues, they are not open for debate.

However, there are other issues about following Jesus that would be referred to as open-handed issues that followers of Jesus disagree on. For example, is it o.k. for Christians to drink alcohol socially? Is it o.k. for Christians to dance? Should Christians participate in any activity that is associated with Halloween? Should Christian children to go to public school or should they be in a Christian school or homeschooled? Should Christians work at casinos?

Now, these issues are debatable, because while the issue is not clearly stated in the Bible as being right or wrong, some people view the issue as morally wrong, while others view the issue as being morally acceptable. And so often, what can tend to happen is that followers of Jesus will engage in heated debate and confrontation over an issue that God has not given us a clear directive on in His word. As followers of Jesus we often want to make open handed issues close handed and make closed handed issues open handed. So, we must be very careful when we are giving our opinion on an issue that is an open-handed issue.

The fourth application of this truth is that we use good judgment when making judgments when we refuse to make judgments about the behavior of non-Christians by Christian standards. Far too often we expect non-Christians to act like Christians before they become Christians while allowing Christians to act like non-Christians. Instead of expecting non-Christians to act like Christians before they become Christians, imagine what would happen if we lived around them in such a way that revealed and reflected Jesus to them.

When we read the accounts of Jesus life in the Bible, what we discover is that there was something about Jesus that made people who were far from God comfortable enough to hang out with Son of God. While Jesus never lived a life that was marked by selfishness and sin, people who were far from God felt comfortable enough to engage and interact with Him. If you are a follower of Jesus, could the same be said of you? Jesus never expected non-Christians to act like Christians before they became Christians. Instead, Jesus lovingly engaged those who were far from Him and invited them to follow Him.

The fifth application of this truth is that we use good judgment when making judgments when we remember that our ultimate purpose in judging is not to condemn, but to either evaluate and protect or discern and restore. As followers of Jesus, when it comes to making judgments about others, God wants us to judge in the same way we both judge and love ourselves, by calling sin, sin, while responding with an abundance of grace and mercy to those who are engaged in sin. We discover a sixth application of this truth is what Jesus says next in Matthew 7:6:

"Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.

Now to fully understand what Jesus is communicating here, we first need to understand something about the context and the culture that Jesus was speaking into. In the Jewish culture of the day, “A dog” was a phrase used to refer to a culturally impure person. In addition, swine were considered unclean and impure by the Jewish people.

Jesus here paints two different word pictures to reveal the reality that we should not attempt to force the message of the gospel and the message and teaching of Jesus down the throats of people who are either incapable of receiving it or are openly opposed to it. When we do that, we risk that the message of God will be disrespected or abused and that we will be attacked by those who we are trying to reach because of our overbearing approach.

And it is here that we discover a sixth application of this truth in that we use good judgment when making judgments when we use judgment when we are sharing God’s message with others. As followers of Jesus, we are to use judgment when it comes to who we share the message of the gospel with. As followers of Jesus, we are to use judgment when it comes to when we share the gospel with others. And, as followers of Jesus, we are to use judgment when it comes to how we share the message of the gospel with others. As followers of Jesus, we are not to view those who do not know Jesus as projects to be completed. Instead, we are to view those who do not know Jesus as people to be invested in and loved.

So here is a question to consider: Do you use good judgment when making judgments? Do you make judgments or are you judgmental? Do you make judgments about others by the same standard that you want to be judged?  Do you begin with the person in the mirror before moving to the person out the window when it comes to expressing your opinions? Do you point the thumb at yourself before pointing the finger at others when it comes to making judgments?

 And what is the purpose behind you’re your desire to make judgments? Do you make judgments in order to condemn or to rescue and restore? Do you use good judgment when it comes to who, when, and how you engage others with the claims of Christ and the message of the gospel?

Because, as Jesus makes clear, a right relationship with God requires that we use good judgment when making judgments...

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