Wednesday, February 1, 2017

Lovingly limiting the freedom that we have for the spiritual good and growth of others...


At the church where I serve, we have been spending our time together in a sermon series entitled “Won’t you be my neighbor”. During this series our hope and our prayer is to answer the questions “Why should I be a neighbor?” “Who is my neighbor?” and “How should I be a neighbor?” Our hope and our prayer is to answer these questions in a way that enables and empowers us to live our day to day lives as a follower of Jesus in a way that is a neighbor to those that God has already placed in our spheres of influence who are far from God in a way that reveals and reflects Jesus to them.

This week, I would like for us to continue to answer the third question that we are looking at in this series, which is “How should I be a neighbor?” To continue to answer this question, I would like for us to spend our time together looking at another section of a letter that is recorded for us in the New Testament of the Bible called the book of Romans. After the section of the book of Romans that we looked at last week, the Apostle Paul challenged this group of early followers of Jesus to practice a lifestyle that exercises the liberty that they had as followers of Jesus carefully.

You see, as followers of Jesus, there are some issues about following Jesus that are closed handed issues that are not open for debate. For example, the fact that Jesus Christ is God-in-a-bod; the truth of the Trinity; the truth that salvation from selfishness and sin comes only by placing one’s confident truth in the claims of Christ and the message of the gospel by believing, trusting, and following Jesus as Lord and Leader; these are closed handed issues, they are not open for debate.

However, there are other issues about following Jesus that would be referred to as open-handed issues that followers of Jesus disagree on. For example, is it o.k. for Christians to drink alcohol socially? Is it o.k. for Christians to dance? Should Christians participate in any activity that is associated with Halloween? Should Christian children to go to public school or should they be in a Christian school or homeschooled? Should Christians work at casinos?

Now, these issues are debatable, because while the issue is not clearly stated in the Bible as being right or wrong, some people view the issue as morally wrong, while others view the issue as being morally acceptable. And so often, what can tend to happen is that followers of Jesus will engage in heated debate and confrontation over an issue that God has not given us a clear directive on in His word.

And because God has not given us a clear directive, what we tend to do as followers of Jesus is to try to help God out by making a list of rules in addition to the Bible when it comes to these debatable issues. And as a result, we move from living a lifestyle that is based on a confident trust in God to a lifestyle that is attempting to keep a list of rules when it comes to practicing our faith.

So in Romans 14, Paul called the members of the church at Rome, and followers of Jesus throughout history, to carefully exercise the liberty that we have as followers of Jesus by not judging others when it comes to debatable issues. In addition, Paul called followers of Jesus throughout history to carefully exercise the liberty that we have as followers of Jesus by lovingly limiting that liberty for the sake of others.

And it is in the context of how we as followers of Jesus are to relate to others who may disagree with us when it comes to the open handed issues of following Jesus that we are going to jump back into this letter. So let’s jump into this section of this letter, beginning in Romans 15:1-6:

Now we who are strong ought to bear the weaknesses of those without strength and not just please ourselves. 2 Each of us is to please his neighbor for his good, to his edification. 3 For even Christ did not please Himself; but as it is written, "THE REPROACHES OF THOSE WHO REPROACHED YOU FELL ON ME." 4 For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. 5 Now may the God who gives perseverance and encouragement grant you to be of the same mind with one another according to Christ Jesus, 6 so that with one accord you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Now to fully understand what Paul is communicating here, we first need to understand what was occurring among followers of Jesus at the church at Rome, and still occurs in churches today. At the church at Rome, there were some followers of Jesus who were what Paul called weak in faith. This phrase refers to a follower of Jesus who has an inability or a limitation when it comes to experiencing the freedom and liberty that they have when it comes to living out their day to day lives as a follower of Jesus.

By contrast, a person who is strong in faith experiences a sense of strength and freedom that allows them great liberty in how they live out their day to day lives as a follower of Jesus. You see, what was happening in the church at Rome was that people who had the strength and freedom that flowed from their confident trust in the claims of Christ and the message of the gospel to exercise their liberty when it came to the debatable issues of following Jesus were criticizing and condemning those who were not exercising their freedom as a result of their relationship with Jesus as being spiritually immature and as second class citizens in the church.

In our culture today, this would be like taking a person who was an alcoholic and had come to have a relationship with Jesus to a bar and saying “well if you were spiritually mature, you could have a drink with me, because the Bible does not condemn social drinking, it only condemns drunkenness, So why don’t you do the spiritually mature thing and have a drink with me”. Meanwhile, the new follower of Jesus is saying “no way, because I know what could happen if I start drinking, so I am not going to drink, because I am convinced that drinking is wrong”.

So, followers of Jesus were getting into conflicts and quarrels with one another over differing opinions on open handed and debatable issues when it came to following Jesus. And followers of Jesus were criticizing, condemning, judging and treating one another with contempt and in competition to who was right and thus more valuable and spiritually mature. Now here is a question: has anything changed? Has anything changed in 2,000 years?

No it hasn’t, has it? There is a cottage industry within Christianity where bloggers and book writers and commentators spend their lives debating and arguing over open handed and debatable issues in a very ungracious manner that looks nothing like Jesus.

Paul responded to what was occurring at the church in Rome by commanding those who had the strength and freedom that flowed from their confident trust in the claims of Christ and the message of the gospel to exercise their liberty when it came to debatable issues of the faith ought to bear the weakness of those without strength. Now this word ought literally means to be under obligation to meet certain social and moral conditions.

And the social and moral obligation that they were to meet was to bear patiently and put up with those whose weakness of faith limited the exercise of the liberty that they had as a result of their relationship with Jesus in their day to day lives. Instead of focusing on experiencing pleasure and self-satisfaction as a result of the freedom and liberty that they had as a follower of Jesus, Paul called for a sacrifice of their self-satisfaction and self-interest for the sake of others.

Now an almost immediate objection that could be raised here regarding Paul’s comments here is this: “Why should I have to sacrifice the freedom and liberty that I have as a result of my relationship with Jesus for someone else? I am not sinning; so why do I always have to give up and sacrifice my liberty for someone who is weaker in their faith and won’t exercise the freedom that they have? If Jesus is the one who provides the freedom for me to have a beer after work, then why do I have to limit living in that freedom by not having a beer because of some teetotaler?”

If that objection is running through your mind, I just want to let you know that it is a fair objection to have. And fortunately for us, Paul provides the answer to us in verse 2: “Each of us is to please his neighbor for his good, to his edification.”? Paul’s point here is that, as followers of Jesus, we are to practice a lifestyle that strives to build others up. Paul commanded the members of the church at Rome, and followers of Jesus throughout history, to practice a lifestyle in community with one another that is focused on the spiritual growth and spiritual good of those around us.

Now, as is often the case when we are asked to limit our freedom, the first question that arises, regardless of what age or stage of life that we are in is “why”? Why should I lovingly limit my freedom for the spiritual good and growth of others who are not able to exercise the same liberty and freedom that I have?”

Paul, anticipating this question, provides the answer in advance in verse 3 by explaining that Jesus did not live His life on earth with a focus on pleasing Himself. Paul then reinforces this reality by quoting from a section of a letter in our Bibles called the book of Psalms. In Psalm 69:9, the Psalmist predicted and proclaimed that Jesus faced and endured disparagement and disgrace during His life on earth. And as the accounts of Jesus life in the Bible remind us, when Jesus faced disparagement and disgrace, He never played the God card. 

Jesus did not enter into humanity in order to exercise the rightful freedom and liberty that He had as the Co-Creator of the universe who is large and in charge of everything. Instead, Jesus entered into humanity and lovingly limited His freedom by allowing Himself to be treated as though He lived our selfish and sinful life, so that God the Father could treat us as though we lived Jesus perfect life.

You see, Jesus never asks us to do something that He has not already done. Paul then reminded the members of the church at Rome that the Bible was given to us by God to teach and encourage us to bear up and hold out in the face of difficulty with the confident expectation that, in the future, every follower of Jesus will be able to exercise the freedom and liberty that they have as a result of their relationship with Jesus. Until that time, however, as followers of Jesus we are to practice a lifestyle that strives to build others up in a way that lovingly limits the freedom that we have for the spiritual good and growth of others.

Paul then paused, right in the middle of his letter, to pray that God would give the members of the church at Rome, and followers of Jesus throughout history, the ability to live in unity as a community of believers that influence the opinions of the world around them by enhancing God’s reputation through their attitudes and actions with one another. Because, as followers of Jesus we are called to practice a lifestyle that strives to build others up.

Friday, we will see Paul reveal for us a second way that followers of Jesus are to live in relationship with one another…

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