Wednesday, August 21, 2013

A Prayer of Desperation for Direction...


This week, we are looking at a story that is recorded for us in the very first letter in the Bible, called the book of Genesis. Yesterday, we looked on as Abraham approached the end of his life and recognized that there was something that he needed to make sure was taken care of before he died. The loose end to be tied up before Abraham died was to make sure that Isaac found a wife. And since Abraham was now too old and frail to do what he believed was necessary to find Isaac the right wife, Abraham called upon his most trusted servant, the servant that had been with him the longest, to tie up this loose end.

Abraham’s servant was to head, by himself, to the land of Abraham’s relatives, which was 400 miles away, find Abraham’s relatives, and then find a wife for Isaac from one of those relatives, without Isaac. Today, we will look on as the search begins, as we see in Genesis 24:10:

Then the servant took ten camels from the camels of his master, and set out with a variety of good things of his master's in his hand; and he arose and went to Mesopotamia, to the city of Nahor. He made the camels kneel down outside the city by the well of water at evening time, the time when women go out to draw water. He said, "O LORD, the God of my master Abraham, please grant me success today, and show lovingkindness to my master Abraham. "Behold, I am standing by the spring, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water; now may it be that the girl to whom I say, 'Please let down your jar so that I may drink,' and who answers, 'Drink, and I will water your camels also '-- may she be the one whom You have appointed for Your servant Isaac; and by this I will know that You have shown lovingkindness to my master."

After entering into the oath and commitment to find Isaac a wife, the servant grabs ten camels, along with some other prized possessions of Abraham and travels north to the city Nahor. Now the city of Nahor was near the city of Haran, which is where Abraham originally came from. As we discovered earlier in this series, this would not have been a short trip. Instead, this journey would have taken a month to complete. The ten camels and other prized possessions were part of what was called the bride price, which in the culture of the day was given as a gift to the bride’s family.

Now imagine yourself as this servant. Most likely, you have never met and have no idea who Abraham’s relatives are. And Abraham did not give you a specific place or list of names to search. There is no Google. So how are you going to find his relatives, let alone know which woman is the right woman for Isaac? So what would you do?

Here we see the servant do two things. The first thing that the servant did was to place himself in a position where there was the greatest opportunity to encounter Abraham’s relatives. The servant placed himself by the well at the outskirts of town late in the day, when the most people would head there to get water.

The second thing that the servant did was to pray. And this prayer was bold and this prayer was specific. Now this prayer, if communicated in the language we use in our culture today, would have sounded something like this: O Lord, you are large and in charge, you rule and you reign. I have seen your activity in my master’s life. And I come to you and pray that you would guide and direct me to find the right woman for Isaac. I pray that you would continue to show your faithful devotion to my master. And God I pray that you would give me a sign to make sure that I find the right woman. So God, I am going to stand by this well, and I pray that the woman who gives me a drink of water and offers to water all the camels would be the women you have determined that would marry Isaac”.

The servant asks for two specific signs. The first sign, that the girl would offer him something to drink, would not be that unusual. The second sign, however, which was to offer to water all ten of the servants camels would be much more unlikely to happen.

Now a natural question that arises here is “well Dave are we supposed to pray like that? Are we supposed to pray that God would give us signs, like three green traffic lights in a row, to determine God’s will and direction for our lives?” The answer to that question is no, you shouldn’t, to which some of you now are thinking “well why not, the servant did”.

Here is the reason we should not pray that way. The reason why the servant prayed that way is due to the reality that at this point in God’s story, the servant is lacking the Holy Spirit and the Bible. In addition, there are no priests or religious authority. So if you were the servant, how else would you try to discern God’s will?

In addition, notice that nowhere does it say that God agreed to these signs; all the Bible tells us is that the servant presumed upon these signs. You see, the servant was desperate for God’s guidance. The servant recognized that he had made a promise to make sure that Isaac would be in line with God’s promises. And the only way that he believed that he would be able to fulfill his promise was to ask God for guidance and direction to help position Isaac to experience God’s promises. So the servant prayed for guidance. And as the servant prayed, we see what happens in verse 15:

Before he had finished speaking, behold, Rebekah who was born to Bethuel the son of Milcah, the wife of Abraham's brother Nahor, came out with her jar on her shoulder. The girl was very beautiful, a virgin, and no man had had relations with her; and she went down to the spring and filled her jar and came up. Then the servant ran to meet her, and said, "Please let me drink a little water from your jar." She said, "Drink, my lord"; and she quickly lowered her jar to her hand, and gave him a drink. Now when she had finished giving him a drink, she said, "I will draw also for your camels until they have finished drinking." So she quickly emptied her jar into the trough, and ran back to the well to draw, and she drew for all his camels. Meanwhile, the man was gazing at her in silence, to know whether the LORD had made his journey successful or not. When the camels had finished drinking, the man took a gold ring weighing a half-shekel and two bracelets for her wrists weighing ten shekels in gold, and said, "Whose daughter are you? Please tell me, is there room for us to lodge in your father's house?" She said to him, "I am the daughter of Bethuel, the son of Milcah, whom she bore to Nahor." Again she said to him, "We have plenty of both straw and feed, and room to lodge in." Then the man bowed low and worshiped the LORD. He said, "Blessed be the LORD, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken His lovingkindness and His truth toward my master; as for me, the LORD has guided me in the way to the house of my master's brothers."

Can you imagine what that must have been like for the servant? As you are praying, a woman who just happens to be Abraham’s grandniece, who just happens to be of marriageable age and a virgin, who just happens to be beautiful, of high moral character, generous, and kind, walks up to you, gives you and drink and offers to spend the next hour watering all your camels. The servant responded by observing Rebekah in silence and she fulfilled all of the signs that he had asked God for.

And not only did Rebekah fulfill his signs, Rebekah also offered food and lodging for the servant. And at that point, the servant could remain silent no longer, but instead burst out in public praise and worship of God. The servant basically exclaimed “praise be the Lord, who has shown His faithful devotion to my master Abraham. Praise be the Lord who has answered my prayer by guiding me to Abraham’s family and providing me this woman for Isaac”.

Friday, we will see how Rebekah’s family responded to Abraham’s servant and discover a timeless truth about God and God’s promises…

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