At the church where I serve we are in the middle of a
sermon series entitled Relationships or Relationsinks. During this series, we
are discovering what the letters that make up the Bible have to say about
relationships. Regardless of your age and stage of life, regardless of your
marital status, this series is designed to bring people to the place where they
are better equipped to experience love and lasting relationships.
This week, I would like for us to spend our time together
by focusing on the men. And the reason that I want to focus on the men is
because there is a fundamental question that every man who desires to
experience a lasting relationship has to ask and answer. And that question is
this: how do you as a man view women?
Do you view women as a possession that provides a
service? Do you view women as a potential servant that meets a need? Do you
view women as a commodity that decreases in value and worth over time? How do
you as a man view women? Now if I was to ask every man to answer that question
our loud, I am almost 100% sure that not a single man would answer yes to any
of those questions.
But what answer would I receive if I looked at the
playlist on your mobile device, or on Spotify or Pandora? What answer would I receive if I looked at the cookies
on your computer? What answer would I receive if I looked at the last ten
movies that you rented?
You see, the reality is that in our culture, women are
more often than not viewed as a commodity. More often than not, women are
viewed as a possession that provides a service. Now if you do not think that is
the case, then just spend a few minutes thinking back at the commercials that were
portrayed to men during any sporting event on TV. If you do not think that is
the case, just take a minute and look at the magazines as you check out at the
local grocery store.
Are not those magazines dominated by articles about how a
woman can provide the best service to her man? How you can look your best? T.V.
and magazines portray women as possessions that provide a service to men.
Popular culture views women as a commodity and places enormous pressure on
women to raise their value in the eyes of men by how they look and how they
perform.
Unfortunately, this is not a new phenomenon; this view of
women as a commodity; this view of women as a possession has been around for
thousands of years. As a matter of fact, in the Jewish culture of the first
century, women were viewed by men in an incredibly negative manner.
Josephus, who was a first century Jewish historian,
stated that women were to be held to be inferior in all matters. Philo, who was
a Jewish philosopher, refers throughout his writings to women and female traits
as examples of weakness. A Jewish literary work of the times states that “better
is the wickedness of a man than a women who does good”. And one of the Jewish
prayers of the day included one in which a Jewish man thanked God that he was
not a woman.
And then there was how women were
viewed in the Roman culture of the first century. The Roman culture of the
first century was male dominated culture where women were treated as
possessions. Roman law did not regard women
as equal to men. Women in Roman
culture could not vote or hold political office. Women were treated as servants
who were expected to obey their husbands in almost every aspect of their lives.
Women received only a basic education, if
any at all, and were subject to the authority of a man. Traditionally, this was
their father before marriage. After marriage, authority switched to their
husband, who also had the legal rights over their children. Women were viewed as a possession that was responsible to
provide a child for heir, but not too many children.
As a matter of fact, the birth rate among the ruling class declined to
such an extent that the Roman emperor Caesar Augustus,
who is mentioned in the accounts of Jesus birth, passed a series of laws
intended to increase it, including special honors for women who bore at least
three children. Those who were unmarried, divorced, widowed, or barren were
prohibited from inheriting property unless named in a will.
In the culture of the
1st century, it was not unusual for men to have multiple mistresses
or for men to engage in sex with prostitutes so as to avoid the responsibility
of having children or raising children. In addition, unlike today, most adoptions in Roman society did not occur
when children were babies. In Roman culture, you would never adopt a baby. So,
in the Roman Empire, female babies were often left on the street or taken to
the garbage dump after being born to die of exposure.
And it was into the male
dominated culture that treated women as possessions, and in some cases, less
than human, that Jesus entered into humanity. It was into this culture that
Jesus began to engage and treat women in ways that left his disciples
scratching their heads.
Tomorrow, we will begin to look
at how Jesus engaged and treated women in a way that left men scratching their
heads…
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